Dr Jo Leather is a Psychotherapist and EMDR practitioner working in Manchester, UK and online. One of the most common things my clients want to work on is changing their pattern of people pleasing.   People pleasing can look like: ·      over-functioning ·      always putting yourself last ·      never meeting your own needs ·      avoiding conflict I have found people pleasing to be especially common in anxious, care-giving, neurodivergent and/or ‘parentified’ clients. Under